how Abusers Control the Narrative
"It''s time to flip the script on domestic violence"
Abusers Manipulate
Abusers have a calculated approach to controlling the narrative by speaking first, which greatly impacts their ability to manipulate and maintain power over their victims. By taking the initiative in verbal exchanges, abusers can shape perceptions, distort the truth, and establish credibility before anyone else has an opportunity to speak. This strategic move allows them to lay out their version of events while potentially sidelining alternative viewpoints or contradicting information from outsiders.
Furthermore, abusers use this tactic to create doubt, confusion, and dependency within their victims' minds. They exploit their articulate communication skills to appear authoritative and persuasive, thereby solidifying their control over the narrative. This psychological manipulation is particularly effective because it disempowers victims who may struggle with self-expression or lack confidence in challenging false narratives.
Recognizing this dynamic is crucial for understanding the insidious tactics employed by abusers and STOPPING the abuse.
When abusers are allowed to control the narrative, it becomes a dangerous and terrifying situation. Governmental agencies being overwhelmed and careless in their duties leads to victims becoming further victimized.
The victim begins to feel like no one will believe them and abandon hope of taking back their lives. They often question is there any hope of getting out of this situation?
The answer is YES.
We are on a mission to change the narrative of domestic violence.
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About our founder
How male victims of domestic abuse often end up getting arrested themselves.
How male victims of domestic abuse often end up getting arrested themselves.
Our founder's story is a powerful testament to his strength and resilience. He faced layers of domestic violence from emotional “intimate terrorism” to financial exploitation during the course of his brief but chaotic marriage. Unfortunately fleeing did not end the abuse and in fact enraged his abuser who created a bizarre course of events worthy of a reality TV drama. Through lies and deception, using third parties and playing the "victim" this has continued for over a decade. His abuser stalking his family, friends and co-workers. Any morsel of information his abuser could garner, his abuser becoming dangerously obsessed. His abuser went so far as to obtain a certification as a "sniper". But did this alert or alarm law enforcement or the judicial system? No. Why you ask?
Well as difficult as it is for a victim to be a woman it is even harder as a man. You are a non stereo typical victim. Bottom line, he was not believed by law enforcement nor the judicial system. Enduring comments like "hey your a big guy your in fear of that little women?" Sadly, that very attitude combined with the abuser's manipulation and lies almost costing him his life and left him permanently disabled.
Despite facing this unimaginable injustice, as his ex continued to weaponized law enforcement and the legal system he fearlessly pursued his vision to free himself from this circle of abuse. He refused to be victimized by this broken person and more importantly from a very broken system.
With determination, he established this groundbreaking nonprofit organization. I'm a Survivor of Domestic Violence supports ALL individuals who have experienced adversity. It is now a haven of empowerment, providing solace and resources to those in need.
His journey showcases the transformative power of resilience, inspiring others to overcome challenges. His dedication has touched countless lives and left a lasting impact. As this organization continues to grow, it's influence expands both nationally and now globally.
"On a personal level, I understand the reality of what is like to be a victim and not be believed. I have experienced first-hand how scarce support services are for not only all victims of domestic violence but in my case for males in this society. There is this ongoing theme that help is available but in reality it feels like more of a marketing campaign at best. It is infuriating to witness the lack of attention and resources dedicated to addressing the unique challenges for domestic violence and in my case issues faced by men. Society insists on perpetuating traditional gender roles and stereotypes, assuming that men should always be strong and self-reliant. This perspective completely disregards the fact that every person, regardless of their gender, deserves access to proper care and assistance when needed. It is high time we challenge these norms and establish inclusive support for the needs of all individuals. It's time to flip the script on domestic violence".
-Bryan
#imasurvivorofdomesticviolence
How male victims of domestic abuse often end up getting arrested themselves.
How male victims of domestic abuse often end up getting arrested themselves.
How male victims of domestic abuse often end up getting arrested themselves.
Research suggests male victims of domestic abuse are failing to report attacks for fear of being arrested themselves.
Our Team
How male victims of domestic abuse often end up getting arrested themselves.
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Our team comprises a diverse group of dedicated professionals who have devoted their careers to advocating for the rights and well-being of individuals affected by domestic violence, human trafficking, and human and civil rights violations. Our team members bring a wealth of experience and expertise in their respective fields, enabling us to tackle these sensitive and complex issues. w Whether it is providing safe housing, medical care or legal services to survivors of domestic violence, raising awareness about human trafficking through public outreach campaigns, or lobbying for policy changes to strengthen protections for marginalized communities, our team is united by a shared commitment to justice and empowerment. We collaborate closely with law enforcement agencies, government officials, nonprofit organizations, and community leaders to identify gaps in existing systems. Through our work, we aim to create lasting change on both individual and systemic levels, ensuring that all individuals can live free from abuse, violence and discrimination.
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As an organization, we pride ourselves on our extensive network of partnerships with diverse entities, both local and national. By collaborating with a range of organizations, businesses, and even government agencies at the state level, we are able to create comprehensive solutions that address the complex needs of our clients and community. These strategic partnerships enable us to leverage the expertise, resources, and networks of our partner organizations, allowing us to deliver high-quality services and achieve greater impact. Through these collaborations, we foster innovation by harnessing different perspectives and knowledge from various industries. Our professional approach ensures that these partnerships are built on mutual trust and shared values, enabling us to work together towards common goals in a cohesive manner. With this wide-ranging ecosystem of partners at our disposal, we can develop tailored strategies that make a lasting positive difference in the lives of those we serve.
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Our team is made up of dedicated professionals who are passionate about making a difference in the lives of those we serve. From case managers to outreach workers, we work together to provide comprehensive support to our clients.
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Welcome To I'm A Survivor Of Domestic Violence Inc.
Our 501c3 non profit organization offers multiple resources, such as virtual one on one, and group meet ups for coercive control awareness, domestic violence trauma, high conflict divorce coaching. Our domestic violence advocates, offer safe house re-location placement in extreme situations. Our organization offers, domestic violence court advocates to appear in court with the victim, Our intake team also offers 24/7 - 365 days a year call center support. So if you're in need, to speak with one of our advocates call 1.702.323.4477 or email us ssupport@imasurvivorofdomesticviolence.org